Communication

Life pro tip: your man loves to hear how much you care about him. (Don’t we all?!) Part of keeping romance alive involves showing your love for one another each and every day. And one of the easiest ways to do that is to send one of these super sweet love messages for him.

Texting has become a huge part of our everyday lives, and part of our relationships. This makes it one of the easiest ways to share loving messages with your spouse or partner.

While other occasions will call for a flirty text, a romantic quote, or even a whole list of reasons why you love your partner, most of the time, a sweet and loving message for him is the best way to show your affection.

So, in need of inspiration? We’ve compiled a list of 140 loving text messages for him that can help you have the perfect romantic words—exactly when you need them.

Short Love Messages for Him – Loving Texts for Him

A short and sweet text message for him can go a long way. While a basic ‘love you text’ is sometimes our default message, you can jazz things up a bit without having to write a whole paragraph. These short sweet loving texts will get the job done.

• You make my heart beat faster.
• I’m the luckiest girl in the world.
• I miss your handsome face already.
• I just felt a huge surge of love for you. You’re the best!
• I love you with everything that I am.
• Hey, I just wanted to let you know I love you a little more every single day.
• My love for you is too big and deep to describe.
• I’m kind of obsessed with you.
• Never forget, I love you so much.
• I have so much love for you.
• You make my heart flutter every single time I think of you.
• Being with you feels like a dream I never want to wake up from.
• Just seeing your name pop up on my phone makes my day.
• Every moment with you is my new favorite moment.
• You’re not just my love, you’re my favorite part of every day.
• I find myself falling more in love with you with every passing moment.
• Your love is like a warm embrace that I never want to leave.
• I cherish you more than words can express.
• You’re the reason behind my constant smiles.
• Your love lights up my world brighter than the sun.
• Every time I see you, my heart does a little happy dance.
• I’m so grateful for every moment we share.
• You’re the melody that makes my heart sing.
• In your arms is where I always want to be.
• Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my favorite.
• You’re the magic that adds color to my life.
• Just a reminder: You’re my everything.
• You’re not just in my heart, you’re its very beat.
• Loving you is the easiest thing I’ve ever done.
• With you, every day feels like a beautiful adventure.

Loving Morning Texts for Him

Looking for some loving texts for him to make him smile in the morning? We gotchu’.

• I was totally dreaming of you last night.
• I woke up smiling, all because you’re in my life.
• Good morning, handsome.
• I hope your day is as amazing as you are, sweetheart.
• My day is already going better since I am talking to you.
• I know it’s cheesy, but you’re the first person I think of when I wake up in the morning.
• I wish we could lay in bed together all morning.
• I wake up each day and I cannot wait to see you.
• Hey baby… I woke up thinking about how deeply in love with you I am.
• Good morning! I know you’re going to kick ass today. (Perfect for when your man has something big going on today or a stressful challenge ahead).
• I love waking up knowing that you’re in my life.
• Good morning to the man who makes my heart skip a beat.
• Waking up is wonderful because it means another day with you.
• Sunshine is nice, but nothing brightens my day like your smile.
• Mornings are beautiful, but they’re even better with you in my thoughts.
• Every dawn brings me another day to love you more.
• Good morning, my love. You’re my dream that came true.
• Just thinking of you this morning and it’s already a great day.
• Hey handsome, your love is the fuel that powers my day.
• Good morning! Your love is like a sunrise, always brightening my world.
• Woke up missing you, but just knowing you’re there makes everything better.
• Sending you a good morning hug to start your day right.
• You’re the reason I wake up smiling every day.
• Good morning! Just a reminder that you’re amazing and I’m lucky to have you.
• Each morning, I feel grateful for another day to love you.
• Good morning to the man who owns my heart. Have an amazing day!

Romantic Text Messages – The Sweetest Messages for Him

Now let’s dive into some even more loving messages for him. These are some texts filled with love and romance, perfect when you want to let him know how much he means to you. Some of these are slightly sappy text messages, but it’s so important to share how you feel in words. You also may surprise your partner by sending him an unexpected message of love. You can use any of these, or let them inspire your own sincere loving message for him.

• I love you so much it hurts.
• I actually never knew I could love anyone this much.
• I can’t believe how happy you make me. Just thinking about you puts a smile on my face and makes me feel so good…and so lucky.
• I love that what we have is so real. I have so much faith in our love for one another. Thanks for being an amazing partner.
• I can’t wait to see you again. Every moment I spend with you is my favorite.
• I am so proud of you, and really proud to be your girlfriend.
• You’re the best thing that ever happened to me, and I’m going to keep telling you that each and every day.
• I adore you. I can’t believe I get to be with you on this adventure together.
• Being in love with you is the best feeling in the entire world.
• Just thinking about our first kiss…I’d do it all over again and again.
• Every time I think of you, my heart just swells up with love.
• You’re not just my boyfriend, you’re my best friend and soulmate.
• Falling asleep in your arms is my idea of heaven.
• You make every day feel like a romantic adventure.
• I feel like the luckiest person in the world to have you in my life.
• Just wanted to remind you how much I appreciate everything you do.
• I get butterflies every time I think about seeing you again.
• Your love is like a warm, cozy blanket on a chilly night.
• I can’t stop smiling whenever I picture your face.
• You’re the reason I believe in love at first sight.
• I never knew love could be this good until I met you.
• Thinking of you is my favorite part of the day.
• You’re the missing piece I’ve been looking for all my life.
• With you, every moment is a precious memory in the making.
• Your love is the melody that soothes my soul.
• You’re the prince I’ve dreamt of since I was a little girl.
• I cherish every second we spend together.
• Your voice is my favorite sound.
• I love the way you make me feel so cherished and loved.
• You’re the dream I never want to wake up from.
• Your hugs are the safe haven I always seek.
• I’m enchanted by every little thing you do.
• You’re the magic that lights up my life.
• In your arms, I find the peace I’ve always searched for
• I know no guy is perfect, but you’re pretty damn close.
• What did I think about all the time before I met you?!
• I have the hottest, funniest, sweetest boyfriend ever. 
• I love knowing that we can make it through anything together.
• I am so excited about all that the future holds for us. There’s no one I’d rather discover it with.
• I was just bragging about you to my friends/coworkers. You’re the absolute best.
• You make me feel like the most beautiful, most special woman on earth.
• You are the glue that holds me together, baby. Thank you for being such an important part of my life, especially when things get tough.
• Honestly, you make me want to be a better person.
• We have made so many amazing memories together. I am so grateful for those.
• You make my life feel like a dream. There’s so much love and happiness in it, all because of you.
• There is nothing in this world that will change my love for you.
• You are everything a man should be.
• I love you and I love who you are, and who you are becoming.
• If love is like a song, you are the most beautiful melody I’ve ever heard.
• Just wanted to remind you that you’re my favorite thought every morning and my sweetest dream every night
• In a world full of chaos, your love is my tranquil haven. Thank you for being my peace
• I love the way you understand my thoughts before I voice them. It’s like you have an exclusive window to my soul
• Counting down the minutes until I can feel your arms around me again. Each second away from you feels like an eternity
• Your love is like a melody that my heart can’t stop humming. You’re the song that makes my life beautiful
• Just a little reminder: You mean everything to me. My world is brighter and happier because of you
• Every day with you feels like a page out of a romantic novel. So grateful to be the heroine in your story
• If I could send a message to the universe, I’d tell the stars to shine a little brighter for you tonight
• Your smile is my favorite notification. Can’t wait to see it in person again
• You’re not just my love; you’re my home. With you, I am always where I belong
• Every time I think of you, my heart dances with joy. You’re the rhythm that keeps my life in harmony
• In your arms, I find the strength and love I never knew I needed. Thank you for being my rock and my soft place to fall
• With every sunrise, my love for you grows deeper. You’re the light that brightens my every day
• Your voice is my favorite sound, and your name is the sweetest word my lips ever whisper
• You’ve painted my life with colors of love and happiness. Thank you for being my personal artist
• Falling asleep without you is hard, but knowing I’ll wake up to your love makes it worth it
• If I could hold anything in my hand right now, it would be your hand in mine. Miss you more than words can say
• You’re not just in my thoughts; you’re in my heart, and every beat reminds me how much I love you
• Your love is my guiding star, leading me through life’s darkest nights to mornings of hope and joy
• Every laugh we share, every dream we dare, it all just confirms that we are the perfect pair

Romantic Texts for Your Husband – Romantic Messages for Husband

When I text my husband, I admit, it’s mostly to share hilarious cat memes, but I do try to surprise him now and then with a love-filled message that lets him know how special he is to me. It’s pretty easy for me to come up with a loving message for my husband because I just speak from the heart and let my words flow. If it’s a little more challenging for you to text your hubby in this way, let me help, ladies!

I’ve compiled a list of cute texts to send to your husband, romantic loving texts for hubby, and generally just some things to say to your husband to make him smile.

• You still give me butterflies.
• I would marry you all over again, just so you know.
• Thank you for all that you do for our family. You are the best husband and partner I could ever ask for.
• No one ever told me that love would be this good. It’s amazing. And it’s all because of you.
• Just when I think it is impossible to love you any more than I do already, you prove me wrong, baby.
• Every single morning I thank God for you.

PS: Also check out this great list of prayers for your husband. You can tell him you’re praying for him!

• You are my rock. I absolutely love knowing I can depend on you.
• You should know you have my whole heart, always and forever.
• I have only one regret: I wish I could have met you even earlier in my life so I could have spent more years loving you.
• Thank you for how safe you make me feel. It’s such a precious gift.
• You always make me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. How do you do that? I love you for it.
• I love you, whatever comes our way and whatever happens. We’re in this together.
• Have I told you lately? Marrying you has made me a better person. Thank you so much for that.
• You make my soul sing.
• I can’t wait to get up every morning to spend another day as your wife!

Did you find the perfect loving you message to send your man? 

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Amy Hartle

Amy Hartle is the author of Do You Love Me? How To Stop Seeking Reassurance in Relationships, a book on reassurance seeking and relationship anxiety. Both her book and this blog are born of personal experience; Amy shares expert relationship advice from the lessons learned during her own 10+ years with her husband, as well as couples travel tips and romantic getaway recommendations, all gleaned while traveling the world together.

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There is something so inherently romantic and magical about writing an old-fashioned love letter, isn’t there? Sometimes you just need to lay it all out in words for your sweetheart to hear, er, read!

Showing your love is an important part of a healthy relationship, and there are many ways of saying I love you! Do you know what love language you and your significant other have? If your love’s is words of affirmation, then a love letter will be right up her alley!

If you’re looking for templates for love letters that will let her know what’s happening in your heart, we’ve got some love letter ideas for her here! Whether you’re sending your love letters by email, text, or good, old-fashioned post, these can help you say what’s in your heart so she never has to question where she stands with you.

Love Letters for Her

Good Morning Love Letters for Her

These love letters would be perfect to put in a text or email for her so when she wakes up and gets going with her day, she knows that she is always on your mind!

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Good morning, my love!

I know I’m sending this off early to you, but it’s only because you were running through my dreams all night long. I can’t say that I mind, but you are the very last thing on my mind as I drift off to sleep and the very first thing I think of when I awake.

I hope you have a wonderful day; I know I will, because you’ll be in my thoughts all day until we meet up later.

Love you,

    Me

Good morning!

It’s early but I could not go another moment without reaching out to you. I had such a good time with you last night, I just keep replaying everything over and over again in my mind.

You are the most incredible woman I’ve ever known, and I just couldn’t wait another moment without telling you how lucky I feel to be able to spend time with you. You make every single day better than the day before and I just want to say thank you for that.

Love,

Me

Sweet Love Letters for Her

These love letter ideas are just sweet as can be! Sometimes simplicity is best, and what can be more simple than to just directly tell our loved ones how we feel about them? These are some sweet love letter ideas that will be sure to put a smile on her face.

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Hello love,

This might seem a bit old-fashioned to send off a handwritten letter like this, but I felt inspired to write something out for you that comes directly from my heart and hands that could be delivered directly to yours.

You are the reason I smile and the reason I feel hope and excitement for the future. Before you, I didn’t have this kind of direction and drive. With you, I see a new kind of meaning in the world around me that I didn’t before. You have painted my entire world with your love, and it is beautiful.

Thank you for being mine,

Me

To the Woman who Holds my Heart,

I had to put this all out into the physical somehow, so I thought what better way than to write you an old fashioned love letter?

You, and only you, have awakened something inside me that makes me want to become a better, stronger, and sturdier person every single day, and I know why. It’s because I intend to become my very best self not just for me, but for you, because you only deserve the best. If I have to spend the rest of my life on this task, it will be worth it, as long as I have you in my life.

You are incredible, babe. I still don’t know what I’ve done in my life to deserve a woman like you, but I’m going to keep moving forward so I can be worthy of your love each and every day.

With all my love,

Me

My love,

Do you have any idea how much I love you? I mean, truly, do you have any inkling how much you consume my every thought? Every day, I wake up and it’s you. I go to work, and it’s you again. I run my errands, and still, always you on my mind! There is nothing and no one else that has ever affected me the way you do.

Everywhere I go, I hear your voice, I see your gorgeous eyes, I smell your heavenly scent. Just everything about you consumes me, and just to make sure we’re on the same page here, I’m not complaining! This is exactly where I want you, on my mind, in my life, and by my side, always and forever.

Love Always,

 Me

Steamy Love Letters for Her

Now these risque love letter ideas aren’t exactly X rated because we aren’t that kind of site, but we think they offer just the right amount of spice to help make her heart beat just a little faster! You can fill it out with a few extra little details of your own.

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My love,

I’m still reeling from our last time together… in a good way, of course. You are so insanely gorgeous, it blows my mind that you even looked twice in my direction. All it takes is one look my way, but then you prove time and time again how much more there is to you than just these stunning good looks and I’m falling all over myself just to please you, time and time again.

I can’t get the way you taste out of my head, and I don’t want to. I’ll never lose my appetite for you for the rest of my life. You are mine, and that’s all there is to it.

Forever and always,

Me

To the Woman of My Dreams,

My dreams, my waking hours, literally every day and all day, you are always, always on my mind. Not all of these thoughts are rated G, of course. You drive me a little wild with desire, both when we are together and apart, but I wouldn’t change a single thing.

I wouldn’t change the way you look at me after we’ve shared a long, passionate kiss, or the way you feel in my arms as we lay together catching our breath. I wouldn’t change the way you make my heart skip several beats when you call my name, or the way your breath quickens as you get closer and closer…

You are my dream woman and I spend each and every day hoping and praying I never wake up, because where you are is where I always, always want to be.

Love,

Me

Long Distance Love Letters for Her

We know, long distance is never fun. But there are ways you can bridge the distance in your long-distance relationship, whether that’s with long-distance letters, gifts, or date ideas!

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My love,

No surprise here, but long distance SUCKS. It sucks because all I want is to be with you, actually with you, able to hold you in my arms and just breathe the same air as you. Since I cannot do that, I am doing the next best thing (I guess!) and writing this long distance love letter in the hopes you will feel my love this way.

You are on my mind constantly, even though we can’t be together. That’s okay though, because I certainly don’t mind. I am just trying to stay as busy as I can here, but still my thoughts drift to you, and I just spend my days fantasizing about the next time I get to see you and hold you in my arms.

I may not be with you in person right now, but I’m always carrying you in my heart.

Sending all my love,

 Me

My Beautiful Love,

Being so far apart has not been easy at all, but I’m always trying to look for some kind of positive, so here’s what I’ve come up with so far:

Because I can not be with you in person, I have more time to think about how lovely your voice is.

Because I can not be with you in person, I have more time to consider the depth of your soul.

Because I can not be with you in person, I have more time to appreciate the sweet and thoughtful ways you’ve always shown up for me.

Because I can not be with you in person, I spend my days excitedly counting down the moments until I can hold you in my arms again.

Because I can not be with you in person, I am constantly daydreaming about our future together, and babe, it is beautiful.

I love and miss you, and no matter the distance, you are always beside me in my heart.

Love,

Me

Birthday Love Letters for Her

One thing that’s really special about writing a love letter for her birthday is that it can become a treasured keepsake that is sure to last long after the cake is gone! Sometimes it’s sweet gestures like a love letter that are the most beautiful birthday presents of all.

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Happy Birthday!

I have been struggling to think of what to get the woman who deserves the world, and it got me thinking that I don’t know if you realize how bright you shine? How magnificent you are?

I just know that right now, as you’re reading this, you’re probably looking adorable (like you always are), and probably smiling that cute little smile of yours that crinkles the corners of your eyes. Probably smelling absolutely amazing, just like you always do. Just being the coolest woman on the planet, effortlessly, like it’s no big deal. Just no idea of how much you add to the world and all of us in it… but you should!

You are the kind of person who makes the world a brighter place each and every day, and I hope you know today and everyday how incredibly special you are.

All my love,

 Me

Happy Birthday, my love!

I know you’ve got a lot of fun things coming your way for your special day, but I wanted to share a few thoughts with you in writing. You are one of the most intriguing people I’ve ever known in my entire life, and I literally spend every day with you just marvelling at how you’ve come to be the incredible person you are.

Well, today is the day to celebrate you! I want to help make today as special as you are, so let’s do that, okay?

Love always,

 Me

Romantic Love Letters for Her

Looking to become more romantic in your relationship? Well, you’re certainly headed in the right direction if you’re looking for romantic love letter ideas! Viva la romance!

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My love,

Do you remember our first date? I do, and I can still remember the very first moment I knew that you were going to completely change my life, and you have. You are the best thing in my life, and with each passing day, I only come to fall harder and harder for you.

I can not imagine life without you, and I don’t know that I’ll ever find the right words to completely communicate to you how happy you make me and how much I love you, but this is my earnest attempt: you are my everything and I will spend the rest of my life showing you how much I love you.

Love Always,

Me

My dearest love,

With every passing day, I realize that there is no escape for me here. You’ve got me, completely and totally, under your spell. I wake up thinking of you, I go to sleep thinking of you, and if you think there’s even a moment in my day when you’re not on my mind, you’re insane.

I love you and have loved you for a very long time, even before I was willing to admit it to myself. You are the brightest star in my sky, the sweetest fruit in my orchard… you get the idea, right? I’m head over heels in love with you, today and forever, and you’re the only person I want to share my life with.

All my love,

 Me

Make Up Love Letters for Her

Fighting sucks but it happens, and it’s okay as long as you can both move forward in a healthy, respectful manner. These make up letter templates might help.

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Dear You,

I keep replaying every stupid moment from our fight, and I feel horrible. I know I said things that I shouldn’t have, and I don’t want to let that stand because that’s not who I am and not who I want to be for you. I made a mistake and I’m moving forward to fix this, both by doing my own inner work and by reaching out to you here.

My behavior wasn’t acceptable and it won’t happen again. You deserve the very best, always, and I’m going to be doing my very best to be that for you. You are incredible and I know how fortunate I am to be here with you. I promise I won’t forget it.

Yours in love and regret,

 Me

Dear You,

Listen, I know that things aren’t always perfect between us, but to me, it’s perfectly imperfect. Every hurdle we’ve faced hasn’t seemed as high as it would with anyone else, because I’m convinced we can get through anything as long as we are together.

You have made my life so much richer, each and every day, and I don’t even want to imagine trying to do this without you. We are stronger together, and I know that I am stronger with you by my side. I love you, now and forever.

Please forgive me.

All my love,

  Me

There are many great ways to show your person how much you care, and love letter writing is about as classic as it gets! Be sure to personalize your love letter template to be specific to her and your situation, and know that while text and email work just fine, a physical letter is more likely to be kept as a treasured keepsake through the years.

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Amy Hartle

Amy Hartle is the author of Do You Love Me? How To Stop Seeking Reassurance in Relationships, a book on reassurance seeking and relationship anxiety. Both her book and this blog are born of personal experience; Amy shares expert relationship advice from the lessons learned during her own 10+ years with her husband, as well as couples travel tips and romantic getaway recommendations, all gleaned while traveling the world together.

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Are you looking for Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples? Relationship conversation starters and couples games like Never Have I Ever, Would You Rather, and How Well Do You Know Me are fantastic ways to dig a little deeper and learn a little more about the person you’re with in a fun and interesting way.

Some couples Never Have I Ever questions are lighthearted and a little silly, while others can get deeper and of more significance. Skip around and choose the ones that feel right for where you and your partner are; you don’t want to ask a question you don’t really want to know the answer for!

Communication is important in relationships, but that doesn’t mean it always has to be serious. Have fun and communicate while playing relationship games like Never Have I Ever!

How Do You Play Never Have I Ever for Couples

Many people play Never Have I Ever as a drinking game, where the first person states “Never Have I Ever___” and if they actually have done the thing, they drink, and the other person must also drink if they have done that thing, but there are alternatives to this!

Make it a healthier version of couples Never Have I Ever by replacing the drinking with a little physical activity, like 5 sit-ups or push-ups. For example: you start by saying “Never have I ever used a partner’s toothbrush” and if you have used a partner’s toothbrush, you have to do 5 sit-ups. If your partner has also used a partner’s toothbrush, they must do 5 sit-ups too, but if they haven’t, they don’t.

If you want to make it a little risque, you could even turn your Never Have I Ever couples game into a strip version where instead of taking a drink, you must remove an article of clothing!

You could also play for points, where X amount of Never Have I Evers = an agreed-upon favor or deed of some sort, like a back massage or a special date somewhere. The best part about couples games like Never Have I Ever is that you get to modify it and personalize it to fit your relationship.

However you tailor your Never Have I Ever game for couples, have fun getting to know each other on a deeper level. This is also a great addition to many of these date ideas here. Enjoy!

Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples

1. Never have I ever lied to my partner about where I was.
2. Never have I ever cheated on someone I was dating.
3. Never have I ever stolen from someone I was dating.
4. Never have I ever broken up with someone by text.
5. Never have I ever ghosted someone I was dating.
6. Never have I ever pretended to like something my date likes just to impress them.
7. Never have I ever been jealous of one of my partner’s friends.
8. Never have I ever snooped through my partner’s phone or computer.
9. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone just to get a free meal.
10. Never have I ever flirted with someone while in a committed relationship.
11. Never have I ever gotten into a physical fight with a partner.
12. Never have I ever been in a long-distance relationship.
13. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher.
14. Never have I ever played strip poker with a significant other.
15. Never have I ever been in a threesome.
16. Never have I ever lied about my sexual history to a partner.
17. Never have I ever had a one-night stand.
18. Never have I ever had sex on a first date.
19. Never have I ever regretted breaking up with someone.
20. Never have I ever broken up with someone because of their appearance.
21. Never have I ever lied about being busy to avoid spending time with my partner.
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22. Never have I ever had feelings for someone else while in a relationship.
23. Never have I ever gone through my partner’s things without their knowledge.
24. Never have I ever used sex as a bargaining tool.
25. Never have I ever dated someone just because they were wealthy.
26. Never have I ever had an affair with a married person.
27. Never have I ever gone on a blind date.
28. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they were too clingy.
29. Never have I ever lied about my age to a partner.
30. Never have I ever pretended to be interested in a partner’s hobbies just to keep the peace.
31. Never have I ever lied to a partner about my feelings.
32. Never have I ever ignored a partner’s texts or calls and then lied about it.
33. Never have I ever been in a polyamorous relationship.
34. Never have I ever dated someone significantly older or younger than me.
35. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend’s partner.
36. Never have I ever joined the Mile High Club.
37. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my job or education.
38. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they didn’t have enough money.
39. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my past relationships.
40. Never have I ever pretended to be someone I’m not to impress a partner.

    

41. Never have I ever been cheated on.
42. Never have I ever gone on a date just to make a crush jealous.
43. Never have I ever lied to a partner about my intentions.
44. Never have I ever broken up with someone because of their political beliefs.
45. Never have I ever been on a dating app or website.
46. Never have I ever cheated on a partner emotionally.
47. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my feelings for someone else.
48. Never have I ever given a fake compliment to a partner.
49. Never have I ever lied about my income to a partner.
50. Never have I ever had a partner lie about their sexual history.
51. Never have I ever been in a serious relationship that lasted over a year.
52. Never have I ever sent a flirty text message to someone other than my partner.
53. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my family or upbringing.
54. Never have I ever snooped through my partner’s social media accounts without their permission.
55. Never have I ever used my partner’s toothbrush without telling them.
56. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my religious beliefs.
57. Never have I ever dated someone who my friends or family didn’t approve of.
58. Never have I ever been in a relationship where the other person didn’t speak the same language as me.
59. Never have I ever had a secret crush on someone while dating someone else.
60. Never have I ever written a love letter I regretted.
61. Never have I ever dated someone I didn’t really connect with just because I found them physically attractive.
62. Never have I ever flirted with someone to get what I want.
63. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my health or medical history.
64. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my sexual preferences or desires.
65. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they did or didn’t want children.
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66. Never have I ever pretended to be single when I was in a relationship.
67. Never have I ever ignored my partner’s feelings or needs for my own selfish reasons.
68. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my financial situation.
69. Never have I ever fallen in love at first sight.
70. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my plans for the future.
71. Never have I ever used a dating app while in a committed relationship.
72. Never have I ever kept a secret from my partner that I knew would hurt them if they found out.
73. Never have I ever been in a relationship where the other person didn’t get along with my friends or family.
74. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone close to an ex just to get revenge.
75. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my level of education.
76. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone who was already in a committed relationship.
77. Never have I ever lied or been lied to about my or my partner’s criminal past.
78. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they didn’t like the same music or movies as me.
79. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my nationality or ethnicity.
80. Never have I ever been in a relationship where the other person was significantly more or less physically active than me.
81. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my drinking habits.
82. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they were too intense or emotional.

    

83. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my career goals.
84. Never have I ever dated someone who was significantly more or less sexually experienced than me.
85. Never have I ever flirted to get out of a difficult conversation with a partner.
86. Never have I ever accidentally fallen asleep while being intimate with someone.
87. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my living situation.
88. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they didn’t share my hobbies or interests.
89. Never have I ever lied about my relationship status on social media.
90. Never have I ever dated someone who had different political beliefs than me.
91. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my dietary restrictions.
92. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they were too busy or not available enough.
93. Never have I ever gone skinny dipping on a date.
94. Never have I ever been in a serious long-distance relationship.
95. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my relationship with my ex.
96. Never have I ever stayed in a relationship longer than I should have because I was afraid of being alone.
97. Never have I ever dated someone who my family disapproved of.
98. Never have I ever lied to my significant other about my feelings towards their friends or family.
99. Never have I ever ghosted someone after a first date.
100. Never have I ever dated someone for their money or status.
101. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my true feelings towards something important to them.
102. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone just to get entry somewhere.
103. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my relationship history.
104. Never have I ever broken up with someone because of their appearance.
105. Never have I ever accidentally told a lie about something important to my partner that I never came clean about later.
106. Never have I ever broken up with a significant other to date someone close to them.
107. Never have I ever hired a private investigator to look into the person I was dating.

There are lots of great ways to deepen and strengthen a relationship, and playing games like Would You Rather and Never Have I Ever for couples is a fun way to dig a little deeper into your lives. It can also be a fun way to feel out the state of your relationship.

Have fun out there!

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Good listening skills are crucial for all relationships, whether it’s family, friend, professional, or romantic, and let’s be honest, it never hurts to collect a few more tips for listening in relationships!

Active listening involves giving feedback to the speaker that you are focused on what they are saying, but being a good listener in marriage or relationships is even more than that. The good news is that there are plenty of ways to become a better listener to your partner if you are willing to implement a few of these relationship listening tips.

Tips for Listening in Relationships

Tune Out Distractions

This might seem like a “duh” listening tip, but it’s incredibly important and something that many of us struggle with. Some things you can do in advance to better set yourself up for mindful listening, like silencing your phone, turning off music/tv/devices that may be going in the background, or moving to a quieter place if you’re out in public.

If you’re one of those people that still have a hard time staying focused on a conversation even without any external distractions, try this trick for focus: mirror the person speaking. This involves reflecting the hand and body movements and facial expressions of the person you’re listening to, and it works because it gives your body something to do while you’re listening, helping you not only show the speaker you’re engaged in the conversation but also helps you stay focused on the words they are saying.

Give Positive Feedback

No, this doesn’t mean that you’re agreeing with everything that is being said, but rather that you are actively engaging in nonverbal and verbal ways that indicate to the speaker that they are being heard.

Similar to the mirroring mentioned above, there are other nonverbal and verbal ways to show that you are listening, like maintaining eye contact, giving slight nods or turns of the head, and offering audible affirmation that you are actively listening, like “hmmm” or making a light “tsk” sound with your lips.

Again, this is all to demonstrate that you are actively listening to your partner, but don’t let your positive feedback become a distraction in and of itself! When you’re with someone a long time, you’ll easily pick up on when your partner is listening and when they are not, so it’s especially important to learn how to be a good listener in marriage and other committed relationships if we want to have healthy, respectful communication.

Leave the Assumptions Behind

We all bring our own assumptions to the conversation, but if we want to be better listeners in our relationships, it’s important to be aware of when we are doing this so we can check it. Common assumptions might be that you already know what it is that the other person wants to say, that you know why the other person wants to say it, and even that you know what they “really” want to say even if they aren’t coming right out and directly saying it.

Whew. That’s a lot of assumptions!

There are a few issues with these assumptions, but the main one is that we do not live in each other’s heads, hearts, and bodies, so even if we know someone through and through, we still will not know exactly what it is that they want to communicate with us, and it is disrespectful to assume that we do!

Assumptions get in the way of listening in relationships because if we think we already know everything the speaker is going to say, we will be filtering everything through that idea and we won’t be hearing the reality of what they say. Check your assumptions and listen to the words as they are being said, instead.

Aim for Understanding

The perfect segue from checking assumptions at the door, aiming for understanding in a conversation puts us in the perfect place to actually hear what is being said. To do this, cultivate a mindset of curiosity. If you are genuinely curious to hear what the other person has to say (instead of assuming you already know!) you will be aiming for understanding.

Listening in relationships can be a little trickier than listening to strangers because you carry all the memories of every shared interaction that you’ve ever had, and this can color not only what you hear during the conversation, but also what you’re thinking about!

Remember that in a conversation, you shouldn’t be rehearsing your responses while the other person is speaking. Cultivating curiosity about what the other person has to say so you can understand what they are wanting to communicate will help keep you focused on listening rather than responding. If you’re looking for how to be a good listener in a relationship, this is important.

Look for Nonverbal Cues

Paying attention to nonverbal cues is a great way to participate in active listening in relationships because a lot of what we communicate to each other is in these nonverbal cues. You likely already know that if someone begins with their hands on their hips or their arms folded across their chest, they’re likely already in an aggressive or defensive state, and this will give you a good communication clue.

Just as important as paying attention to the nonverbal cues of the person you’re listening to is, it’s also important to mind your own! Above, mirroring was mentioned as a means to stay focused on the conversation, but it’s also an excellent way to reflect back to the person speaking that you are fully engaged in the conversation with them and are hearing what is being said.

Don’t Debate Someone’s Experience

This is one of the most essential tips for listening in relationships because when someone is telling you their perspective on something, it is generally not the right time to challenge that perspective, even if you had a different understanding of the experience.

If it is a situation where the speaker is missing information or would benefit from hearing your experience, choose your words carefully, focusing on using “I” language, like “I had a different experience during X, because what I saw was…”

You don’t want to directly contradict someone’s experience because everyone is entitled to their own perspective, but you can offer your own in response if it is helpful or necessary. Healthy listening in relationships should involve everyone feeling safe enough to disclose their perspective honestly, and this can only happen if we don’t feel as if our partner is going to point fingers at us for being “wrong.”

It can help to keep in mind that feelings are just feelings, they are subjective and can’t be labeled “right” or “wrong,” so listening in relationships should involve respecting your partner’s feelings even if you don’t share them.

Pick a Good Time to Talk

This can’t always be done, but if you know that someone needs to speak with you about something, pick a good time to talk where you can fully focus on the conversation. Sometimes we don’t have the luxury of choosing when we will have relationship discussions, but if you can avoid having a talk during a time there will be natural distractions like being hungry before lunchtime or being rushed to make it out the door at a certain time, you’ll be much better set up to focus your attention fully on the conversation at hand.

Paraphrase and Summarize Back

This is another one of those important active listening tools, and if you can get this one down, you’ll become a much better listener in your relationships. To paraphrase is to repeat back what the speaker said in your own words, and to summarize is to recap all you’ve heard.

When you are able to reflect what you’re hearing back to the speaker during the conversation, they are assured that you are hearing them and they are also able to clarify any points that you might not have gotten quite right. This is one of those relationship listening tools that can prevent miscommunications and future fights down the road.

Whether you’re looking for how to be a better listener in a personal or professional relationship, hopefully these relationship listening tips will help you along the way.

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Whether you’re tired of making the same old small talk, or simply looking to spice up your next date night, consider trying out some of these great conversation starters for couples. We’ve got 150 thought-provoking questions for couples to ask one another.

In a long term relationship, or even in a newer one, sometimes you run out of things to talk about and the conversation starts to drag. That’s totally normal and totally ok. But if you’re looking to liven up the conversation, what’s a modern couple to do? Well, we’ve got you covered!

We’ve come up with a list of questions for couples that range from silly and fun to deep and thought-provoking. There are questions about relationships, your childhood, your likes and dislikes, and even your opinion on which direction the toilet paper roll should face (it clearly should be in the “under” position, by the way).

Communication is key to a happy, healthy, and strong relationship. And we can all use a little help now and again. If your chatter is growing a bit stale, these questions for married couples are great for shaking things up and keeping things fresh (the questions can certainly apply to engaged or dating partners, too). Wouldn’t you love to have a great, meaningful conversation with the person you care about? Of course, we all love to feel like we are asking each other the important questions.

About These Questions for Couples

You don’t have to talk about the same things over and over. You don’t need to settle for typical questions and pat answers. With these 150 fun and unique conversation topics for couples, you’ll never run out of things to talk about! And you’ll discover a whole lot more about the person you love. (PS: Asking these questions makes for a great free date night idea).

We’ve divided our couples conversation starters into five sections: the first focuses on general, fun questions for couples to answer together. These make great road trip questions for couples, too, and would be perfect to pull out during a long car ride.

The second section delves into romance and relationships. These topics are designed to spark discussion about the present and future of your relationship and to help you improve and grow in your love. Feel free to add your own thought-provoking relationship questions as they come to you.

The third section presents our most deep questions for couples. These topics deal with matters of life, death, and spirituality. These can get a bit heavy, so you might want to tackle them one at a time, or reserve them for an at-home date night.  (See all of our best at home date night ideas).

We lighten things up for you in sections four and five, which are fun questions for couples, and would you rather questions for couples. Ask these when you’re wanting to be a bit silly together.

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So are you ready? Dive in. These couples conversation starters are for everyone. They are questions for dating couples, for married couples, or for couples who have been together for many, many years. You will definitely get to know your partner better with these 150 questions.

Great Conversation Starters for Couples – Date Night Questions

This section has a perfect selection of conversation starters for new couples. These questions are light and fun and are ideal for those just getting to know one another. These are also good if you want to keep the topics light; if you’re not quite in the mood to dive into those deep conversation starters for couples, but are still looking for some thoughtful questions for couples.

What’s your favorite childhood memory?

Your least favorite childhood memory?

What is the earliest thing you remember?

Would you rather be a billionaire or have an endless supply of knowledge?

Tell me about something you experienced that you have no explanation for.

Who was your superhero or idol growing up?

Do you prefer the beach or the mountains?

What’s your favorite song lyric? Why?

Who was the worst teacher you ever had?

Who was the best teacher you ever had?

If money were no object, what destination would you want to travel to?

What would be your dream job?

What job or type of work would you never ever want to have?

Who were you closest to growing up, your mom or dad? Or someone else related to you?

Tell me about 3 things you used to be scared of as a child.

What 3 things would you say you’re scared of now?

What is your greatest fear?

Would you rather have the power of time travel or the power to see the future?

Would you rather have the ability to fly or the ability to be invisible?

If you had just one last meal, what would you choose to eat?

Do you believe in ghosts or the supernatural?

Have you ever had a supernatural experience?

Money, power, or good looks: which would you rather have an unlimited supply of?

Describe your perfect weekend.

Describe your perfect date.

What’s the best advice you ever received?

Who would play you in a movie about your life?

What would a movie about your life be called?

If you could live in any era what would you choose?

What toy was your absolute favorite growing up?

What is the saddest book you’ve ever read?

Who is your celebrity crush?

Who was your celebrity crush as a teenager?

What are your pet peeves?

What is the best gift you’ve ever been given?

What is your dream home like?

What possession do you treasure most of all?

What book or film can you not imagine your life without?

What 5 people, alive or dead, would you invite to a dinner party?

What wild animal would you be most afraid to encounter?

What creature/insect would most creep you out if you found it crawling on you?

What was the first album/record/CD you ever owned?

What’s your preferred Monopoly playing piece?

If you could have one amazing talent what would it be?

What stresses you out most when traveling?

Who was your favorite family member growing up?

Tell me about your most embarrassing moment.

What celebrity do you think most resembles me? Most resembles you?

Have you ever had an enemy?

Thinking seriously, could the Earth be flat?

What do you think is the greatest television show of all time?

Would you rather win a Nobel Prize or an Academy Award?

What one food would you banish from this earth if you could?

What’s the scariest story you’ve ever heard?

Who is the most famous person you have ever met?

What’s something you’ve done that most people wouldn’t know or guess about you?

You’re strapped in a rocket ship about to go to the moon. Are you thrilled? Or terrified?

What is the correct way for toilet paper to sit on the roll?

What movie always makes you cry?

Thought-Provoking Questions about Relationships

These are excellent relationship conversation starters: ideal for married couples, or for those who are in a long-term relationship. These thought-provoking relationship questions get more serious, delving into more intimate topics, discussions of past relationships, relationship goals, deal-breakers, and more. 

What’s the #1 quality you look for in a partner?

Which of our marriage vows do you think is the most important? (Or if you’re not married, which marriage vow would be most important to you?)

Is there a couple you know that you really look up to?

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done to impress a crush?

What’s your relationship deal-breaker?

What’s your favorite memory of me? Multiple memories welcome!

What’s your favorite part of my body?

What’s something that we’ve never tried in bed that you would like us to try?

On what part of your body do you most like to be touched?

Tell me about a mistake you made in a previous relationship, or something you regret.

What would be the best gift I could give you?

What makes you feel better when you’re sad or stressed?

Describe your perfect afternoon with me.

What is the most romantic movie you’ve ever seen?

What’s one thing that you think would make our relationship better?

What do you think is the biggest cause of or contributing factor towards divorce?

Has our relationship had any effect on your spirituality? Has it changed since we’ve been together?

Do you have a “type,” or did you have one before we got together?

What is the worst date you’ve ever been on?

What song reminds you of me?

What do you think is the ultimate “break up” song?

What is the glue that keeps couples together?

Are you ever jealous of something about me?

What makes you feel the most loved?

If you could change something about me, what would it be?

What do you think would be the most romantic place for us to travel together?

Do you believe in soulmates?

When was the time I made you laugh the most?

Do you worry about our relationship? What would make you feel more secure?

Tell me about your first crush.

When did your parents talk to you about the birds and the bees?

Do you prefer surprises (like on anniversaries) or making plans together?

What do you wish for our relationship?

Where do you see us 5 years in the future? 10 years?

What do you think is the biggest myth about relationships?

What do I do that irritates you?

What do you admire most about me?

Deep Conversation Topics for Couples – Other

These deep questions to ask your significant other are not focused on romantic topics, but instead cover other significant and meaningful subjects. These are important things: discussion topics for couples that should not be missed.

If you could make one change to the world before you die, what would they be?

What does love mean to you?

Do you believe in an afterlife?

If someone gave you an envelope with your death date inside of it, would you open it?

How do you think the world came into existence?

What’s your biggest regret?

What is your greatest achievement?

Were you close to your parents growing up?

What was the most life-changing event you’ve ever experienced?

What were the 3 happiest days of your life?

What is your biggest flaw?

What was the worst day of your life?

What do you love most about yourself?

Have you ever had a falling out with a friend? What happened?

What’s the biggest trouble you’ve ever been in?

Do you believe that pure happiness exists? Have you ever felt it?

What’s the most important thing I should know about you?

Have you ever had your heart broken?

What song do you want to be played at your funeral?

Would you rather live to be 100 with many regrets or live just 20 more years with absolutely no regrets?

Who is the black sheep in your family?

Who is the angel who can do no wrong?

What legacy do you/would you want to leave for your kids? If no kids, younger members of your family?

Do you feel like you’re living your best life? If not, what could you be doing to change that? How could I help you?

Why do you think we’ve been put here on earth? Do you think life has a purpose?

Silly Questions to Ask Each Other

We wanted to make sure to send you off with something fun and light. Not all of your date night conversation starters need to be serious and thought-provoking. Humor is everything! Have fun with these couples conversation starters!

What is your silliest pet peeve?

What’s the most ridiculous nickname you’ve ever been given?

How long will you last in the zombie apocalypse?

What would you bring for an adult show and tell?

What movie have you seen dozens of times?

If animals could talk, which one would be the biggest jerk?

If you could read one person’s mind, whose would it be and why?

What is your most useless talent?

What is the funniest joke you know by heart?

If you were part of the circus, what job would you have?

You have $500 to spend only on yourself. What do you spend it on?

What is the weirdest thing you have ever eaten?

What is the weirdest thing you’d be open to eating?

What would make you lose on Fear Factor?

Are you a competitive person?

What annoys you most when you’re at an airport?

Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Who doesn’t love a good would you rather question now and again? These are even sillier than anything that has come before. Enjoy!

Would you rather fight a tiger or a shark?

Would you rather be teeny tiny or a massive giant?

Would you rather have endless spring or endless fall?

Would you rather be able to talk to your dog or have your dog talk to you? (One choice only)

Would you rather live alone in the world’s most opulent mansion, or with 75 of your closest friends in a studio apartment?

Would you rather be forced to lose your sense of taste or your sense of smell?

Would you rather shave your head bald or get a bad haircut?

Would you rather have diarrhea on a 10-hour flight or be stuck next to someone who had it?

Would you rather eat only pizza for 1 year or eat no pizza for 1 year?

Would you rather wear the same socks for a month or the same underwear for a week?

Would you rather be able only to whisper or only to shout?

Would you rather be the smartest or the funniest person in the room?

How to Use these Romantic Conversation Starters

So how can you make the most of this list of couples conversation topics? There are a few different options!

The easiest is to grab our free, downloadable copy of this list. This provides you with a document you can download and save. If you’d like to print it, that’s a great idea. Pop the printout in your purse and bring it along on your next date night. You can also keep the download right on your phone, so you can simply pull it up when you’re looking for some fresh conversation prompts to get the talking going.

While these conversation starters for couples are awesome for date night, they also make an awesome list of deep road trip questions for couples. Your road trip will fly by as you take the opportunity to grow closer to your significant other and learn something new about each other.

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Amy Hartle is the author of Do You Love Me? How To Stop Seeking Reassurance in Relationships, a book on reassurance seeking and relationship anxiety. Both her book and this blog are born of personal experience; Amy shares expert relationship advice from the lessons learned during her own 10+ years with her husband, as well as couples travel tips and romantic getaway recommendations, all gleaned while traveling the world together.

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Have you and your man gotten into a fight? It happens. If you’re looking for ideas on how to apologize to your boyfriend or husband, we’ve compiled a list of sorry messages for him to help you get moving in the right direction.

All relationships go through rough patches and it’s normal that people have miscommunications and disagreements from time to time, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t apologize when we mess up. This is where a beautifully crafted sorry message for him can help to express your regret. You’ll find apology messages for a boyfriend, apology messages for a husband, and long distance apology messages here that can help you say what you need to say to let your man know how much you care.

Sorry Messages for Him

Apology Messages for Your Boyfriend

1. I’m so sorry and I know I’ve made a massive mistake, I just hope that we can work through this together.
2. Trust me, I know what an idiot I’ve been. You are an incredible boyfriend and you didn’t deserve this. Please let me try to make this up to you.
3. I am so sorry, babe, please let me try to make you feel better about all this.
4. I know that apologies can only do so much, so please tell me what I can do to try to make this up to you.
5. I know I’ve messed up, but if you could give me a second chance, it will never happen again. The thought of losing you is driving me insane.
6. You are an amazing boyfriend and I’m so very sorry this has happened. Let’s talk soon, please?
7. I keep replaying what I said/did, and it’s all just surreal. You are an amazing boyfriend and you didn’t deserve that.
8. I’m so sorry, babe. If I had a time machine, I’d go back and ____.
9. I just keep going back to what I said/did and I can’t believe it happened like that. I am so sorry babe, please let me make this right.
10. I am so very sorry to have hurt you, please tell me what I can do to make it better.
11. You have been an amazing boyfriend from the start and I’m the one that’s been the idiot here. Please let me try to show you I can be what you deserve.
12.  You are an incredible boyfriend and I hate that I took you for granted. Please give me another chance to be a better girlfriend/boyfriend for you.
13. If I told you I’m consumed with guilt from what I said/did to you, would you believe me?
14. You are a wonderful guy and I know I messed up when I did/said ____. I really am so sorry and hope we can talk about it soon.
15. I know that apologizing can’t make up for what I did/said to you, I just hope you’ll let it be a start for me to try and make this right.
16. I can’t believe you’re having to go through all this, you deserve so much better. Please let me try to make it better.
17. You = Perfect Boyfriend. Me = Total Idiot.
18. You have been a dream boyfriend to me and I hate that I haven’t been better for you. I’m so sorry and hope that you will someday give me another chance.
19. I am so sorry, honey, this isn’t who I am, I swear. If you could give me another chance, I promise you I will do everything I can to try to make this up to you and show you who I really am.
20. I am so sorry for being so thoughtless. You are an incredible man, please let me show you what you mean to me.
21. There’s no excuse for my actions, so I won’t even try to make one. I am so sorry and want you to know I’m here whenever you’re willing and able to talk.
22. You are an incredible person and literally everything I’ve ever wanted in a boyfriend, I’m so sorry I’ve endangered our relationship like this. Please let me try to make it up to you.
23. I just keep thinking about how insensitive I was to what you were going through and I’m sorry. That’s not the kind of girlfriend/boyfriend I want to be for you ever.
24. I know that there’s no way for me to talk my way out of what’s happened and I won’t try, I just want you to know I am really and truly so sorry to have hurt you. Please don’t let this be the end for us.
25. I completely understand why you’re angry and you have every right to not want to talk to me. I just want you to know I’m here if and when you’re ready.

Apology Messages for Your Husband

1. My dearest darling husband, I am so very sorry. I’m to blame here, none of this is your fault.
2.  I know you’re angry with me, but if you would be willing to let me try, I just want to make this up to you.
3. You have been the best husband a person could ever ask for, I’m the one who has fallen so short. I am so sorry, please let me try to make this right.
4. My stupid mistakes have complicated everything and I know that. You are an amazing husband and I’m so grateful that you are willing to talk to me about this.
5. You are an incredible man and I hate that I’ve hurt the man I love most in this world. I’m so sorry, honey.
6. If I could take it back, I would. I’m so sorry.
7. To my incredible husband: I know I’ve made a massive mistake and I am just hoping and praying that you will let me try to make this right.
8. If I could go back and change what I’ve done, I would in a heartbeat. You are my everything and I never wanted to hurt you.
9. My sweet, strong husband: you have always been there for me in every way, and to think that I have hurt you like this is breaking my heart. I’m so sorry, love.
10. I just keep thinking of this beautiful life we have together and how I’ve compromised it. I am so sorry, my love, really and truly.
11. I know this is going to be so hard to get through, but please tell me you think we are worth it.
12. To my sweet husband: I’m so sorry, I just feel like I don’t even deserve you sometimes.
13. Every time I think of how I’ve treated you, I get sick to my stomach. My love, you didn’t deserve this and I am so sorry.
14.  You have always been my everything, and to know that I’ve hurt you is destroying me. I know, I deserve that, I just hope that you can someday forgive me.
15. I just keep thinking of our beautiful life and our shared history and my stupid mistake. I am so sorry, my love. Please let me try to make it up to you.
16. I just want to run to you like I always have when I feel terrible, but I know I can’t right now because as bad as I feel, I’m sure you feel worse. I love you so much and am so sorry.
17. You have always been there for me in every way and I know I’ve let you down. I love you and am so sorry.
18. I have nothing but respect and love for you, and I hate that my actions/words haven’t shown you that. Please let me try and be a better spouse for you.
19. I am so sorry, my love. I just want to have the chance to try and make this up to you, even if it takes the rest of our lives.
20. I wish I could take it all back, but I can’t and I’m just so sorry. I love you so much and will be waiting here for you whenever you’re ready to talk.
21. We promised we’d stick together through the good times and the bad. I hate that I’m the reason we are going through the bad, but please know I intend to make this right. I love you.
22. You deserve so much better than this and I’m sorry. Please let me try to make this up to you.
23. I keep replaying everything over in my head and I know I’m in the wrong. I’m so sorry, my love.
24. You are my everything and I am so sorry to have hurt you. Please tell me how to make this up to you, sweet husband of mind.
25. I am so sorry, my love. I feel like I’ve broken both our hearts here and I hate that.

Long Distance Apology Messages for Him

1. It’s hard enough being apart when things are amazing, but being apart when I desperately wish I could look you in the eyes and tell you how sorry I am? This is brutal. I am so sorry, babe.
2. I know these I’m sorry messages aren’t going to be enough, but please tell me we can hold on until we are together again to talk this all through in person.
3. I’m so sorry to have hurt you, I know this is crazy hard to work through long distance, but I really hope we will come out even stronger on the other side.
4. Long distance makes these kinds of communications even harder. I’m so sorry for what’s happened and I just hope that you’ll give me a chance to make it up to you.
5. I wish I could be there with you right now to show you how sorry I am. I just want to make it better for you.
6. I’m so sorry, honey. What can I do to help make this better?
7. I know what I would do if I was there in person with you to try to make this better, but since I can’t do that, please tell me how I can try to make this right.
8. If we didn’t have all this stupid distance between us, I would show you in person how very sorry I am. I hate that we have to be apart like this.
9. We knew that long-distance relationships are hard, but these long-distance fights are even harder. I’m so sorry, love.
10. As far apart as the physical distance has been, I’ve never felt this far apart from you as I do right now. I’m so sorry for everything, I am hoping you’ll let me try to make this up to you.
11. I don’t want to make excuses for my behavior because there aren’t any and I’m just so very sorry. I hope this apology message can be the start of us working through this mess.
12. I am so sorry. I know you’re probably considering walking away from this long-distance relationship because of this, but I can promise you that if you just hold on, I’ll do everything in my power to make this right.
13. I have missed you so much throughout this distance, now I feel like I’ve put even more distance between us with this screw up. Please tell me I can make this right.
14. I hate that I’ve been such a crappy long-distance partner. I’m going to make this up to you, I swear.
15. I just keep imagining that there will be a day soon when we will be together again in person and able to look in each other’s eyes and say how glad we are that we held on through this. I love you and am so sorry.
16. Long-distance apologies are stupid hard and I wish I could just sit next to you and talk all this out. I’m so sorry.
17. I always miss you, but I wish now more than ever that I could see you in person to know what you’re really thinking. I’m so sorry, honey.
18. I feel like this has put even more between us than the physical distance we already had. I hate this and I’m sorry.
19. I know we can get through this if you’ll just hang on here with me. Please, let me show you how sorry I am and how good we can be.
20. Never have I wanted to be able to teleport to you as badly as I do right now. I just want to see you in person to tell you how very sorry I am for all of this.
21. Long-distance relationships are hard but it’s not an excuse for what’s happened and I know that. I’m so sorry and hope we can move through this together.
22. You mean so much to me and I am so sad to think that our relationship is in trouble because of me. Please let me try to make this right for us.
23. I wish I could be there to tell you how sorry I am in person. I really miss you and can’t wait to see you in person again so I can show you what you really mean to me.
24. I know I’m sorry won’t make up for what’s happened here, but please know that I really and truly am.
25. I’m so sorry. I know text apologies like this just aren’t enough, but I’m hoping it’s a start for us.

Expressing how sorry we are can be difficult for many reasons, but if you’re trying to find the perfect words to show him how you feel, then these apologizing love messages will hopefully help you get moving in the right direction. One of the most important things about apologizing to a boyfriend or husband is that we have to own up and acknowledge what we’ve done and also be clear that we hope to make things right. Everyone messes up sometimes, it’s what we do in the aftermath that really counts.

It can be helpful to be specific when you’re apologizing to your boyfriend or husband, ie “I’m really sorry that ___” so that he can really feel that you understand why they’re hurt and upset. If you don’t mind a long sorry message for him, try being specific in how you hope to make it better, too. Apologies are tough, but if you commit to sending sorry messages for him that show him you know why he’s upset and you hope to be able to make it better, you’ll be well on your way to working through the situation you find yourself in. Hopefully, these apology messages for him help you get to that point.

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Amy Hartle

Amy Hartle is the author of Do You Love Me? How To Stop Seeking Reassurance in Relationships, a book on reassurance seeking and relationship anxiety. Both her book and this blog are born of personal experience; Amy shares expert relationship advice from the lessons learned during her own 10+ years with her husband, as well as couples travel tips and romantic getaway recommendations, all gleaned while traveling the world together.

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Have you and your love had a fight? We know, it happens. If you’re looking for how to apologize to your girlfriend or wife after a fight, we’ve put together a list of sorry messages for her to help you put into words how you feel.

Relationships can be tough and sometimes people might say or do things that they need the perfectly crafted apology message for. If that’s where you are, it really is okay. There are romantic sorry messages, sweet apologies to a girlfriend, I’m sorry quotes for wives and more in this list of I’m sorry messages for her so you can show her how you really feel.

Sorry Messages for Her

Apology Messages for Your Girlfriend

1. I know I messed up when I did/said ____. I really am so sorry and hope we can talk about it soon.
2. If I told you I’m consumed with guilt from what I said/did to you, what would you say?
3. I still am kicking myself for making such a stupid mistake. I really am so sorry.
4. If I had a time machine, I’d go back and not ____. I’m so sorry.
5. While saying sorry can’t possibly make up for what I did/said to you, I hope you know I really and truly am sorry.
6. I feel like the dumbest boyfriend/girlfriend ever to do/say what I did to the world’s best girlfriend. I’m a chump and I’m sorry.
7. I keep replaying what I said/did, and I just don’t understand how I did it. You are an amazing girlfriend and you don’t deserve that.
8. I know sorry will only get me so far, so please tell me what I can do to make this right for us.
9. I know I’ve made a massive mistake, I just hope that you will be willing to hear me out.
10. The fact that you don’t have my number blocked just makes me realize what a generous, kind person you are and I just want to make it up to you in any way I can.
11. You have been nothing but absolutely amazing in this relationship and I just want to have the opportunity to make this up to you and give you what you deserve.
12. You are an incredible girlfriend and I’m so very sorry that this happened. Let’s talk, please.
13. I hope you know that I know what an idiot I am. Seriously, who says/does that to their amazing girlfriend? This isn’t who I want to be and I’m sorry
14. I keep replaying what I said/did and I just can’t believe it played out like that. I am so, so sorry, please let me make it up to you.
15. If you could give me a second chance, I can promise you that something like this will never, ever happen again. The very thought of losing you has taught me a very painful lesson, and I am just so sorry I’ve put you through this.
16. I am so sorry for being so thoughtless. You deserve better and I want to make it up to you.
17. I was insensitive to you and I’m sorry. I want to be the boyfriend/girlfriend you deserve, please give me a chance to show you.
18. You have every right to be mad at me and I don’t want to push you. I’m so sorry and I’m here whenever you feel ready to talk.
19. You are everything I’ve ever wanted in a girlfriend, I’m so sorry I’ve compromised what we have. Please let me make it up to you.
20. What I did was foolish, there’s no way I can possibly rationalize my stupid behavior. I’m so sorry, you didn’t deserve that.
21. I am so sorry, really and truly. Please don’t let this be the end of our story.
22. If you could find it in your heart to give me another chance, I promise you I won’t rest until I show you who I really am.
23. You = Perfect Girlfriend. Me = Total Idiot.
24. I know there’s no excuse for my actions, so I won’t make one. I just want you to know I am so sorry to have hurt you.
25. You are an incredible girlfriend and I hate that I’ve fallen so short with you. I’m sorry and hope that someday I can try to make it up to you.

Apology Messages for Your Wife

1. To my beautiful wife: I know I’ve messed up and I can only hope that you will let me try and make it up to you.
2. You have always been there for me in every way, and to think that I wasn’t there for you when you needed me breaks my heart and I probably deserve that. I’m so sorry.
3. We have such a beautiful history together. I am so sorry that my actions have compromised that.
4. I know that there’s no changing the past, but please know that I wake up every morning wishing I could. I’m so very sorry.
5. You are an incredible woman and I really don’t know how I have ever deserved you. I’m so sorry for what I’ve done and hope we can talk things through soon.
6. If I could take it back, I would. I’m so sorry.
7. You are an amazing wife and none of this is your fault. I’m to blame here, for all of it.
8. I know this has complicated everything, but I appreciate you being willing to talk to me about it. I love you and am so sorry.
9. I don’t deserve a second chance, I know that, but if you would be willing to keep moving forward with me, I promise you you’ll never regret it.
10. You are basically a perfect wife and I’m the idiot in this marriage. I’m so sorry.
11. I know this is going to be so hard to get through, but please tell me you think we are worth it.
12. This is all my fault. I hate that I’ve hurt the woman I love most in this world.
13. I want to comfort you so badly, but I feel like I can’t because I’m the one who hurt you and this is a horrible feeling.
14.  You have always been my everything, and to know that I’ve failed you is destroying me. I know, I deserve that, I just hope that you can someday forgive me.
15. I am so sorry, I understand why you’re angry. We’ve had such an incredible history together, I am hoping you will give me a chance to make this right.
16. Every day I wake up with my heart breaking, remembering what has happened. I am so sorry, please let me try to make this up to you.
17. I hate that this has happened, and I just hope that you believe me when I say that I never wanted to hurt you and I’ll live with this regret for the rest of my life.
18. I am a fool to have mistreated you like this. I respect, admire, and love you always, and my actions here haven’t shown you that, but I promise I can make this right.
19. I have so many regrets in this life, but my biggest one is hurting you like this. I am so sorry, please let me try to make this up to you.
20. I love you so much and am so sorry I’ve hurt you, my darling wife. I am an idiot, please forgive me.
21. I am so sorry. We said “in good times and in bad,” well, I’m so sorry I’ve brought the bad. Please let me make this right for us.
22. You are my favorite person on this planet and I’ve hurt you. I’ve broken both our hearts and I’m so sorry.
23. I am so sorry for what I said/did. I’m a total mess without you, please let me try to make this up to you.
24. The idea that I could compromise this marriage, the very best thing that’s ever happened to me, with my thoughtless words/actions is destroying me. I’m so sorry I’ve put you through this.
25. You deserve much better than this and I’m sorry. Please let me show you how much you mean to me.

Long Distance I’m Sorry Messages for Her

1. I know I’m sorry won’t make up for what’s happened here, but please know that I really and truly am.
2. I hate that I can’t be there to tell you how sorry I am in person. I really miss you.
3. I wish I could rewind the clock and take it all back, but I can’t. Please don’t throw away our future over my stupid actions. I’m so sorry and want to make this right.
4. Being so far apart makes these apologies so hard to deliver. You deserve the best and I haven’t shown you that so far, please give me another chance to show you how I feel.
5. I am so sorry for everything that’s happened. I hope and pray you’ll give me another chance to show you what you mean to me in person.
6. All this distance between us makes it even harder to try and figure out where to go from here. I am so sorry for everything, please tell me what I can do to make it better.
7. If I was there with you in person, I would try to show you how sorry I am, but since all I have are words, please know I love and miss you so much and will do everything I can to make this right.
8. I know we can’t be together in person right now, but I want you to know that I will go anywhere and do anything to make this right. Tell me what to do to prove to you how sorry I am.
9. No one said long-distance relationships were easy, but I had no idea long-distance apologies would be so insanely hard. I’ve been an idiot, please forgive me.
10. I know that there are no words that can adequately express what a fool I’ve been, but I want you to know that I know I messed up and I am begging you to give me a chance to be the partner you deserve.
11. There are no excuses to be made here so I won’t even try. Please just know I am so very sorry and this distance between us-both physical and emotional-is breaking my heart. Please allow me to show you what you mean to me.
12. If there was a way for me to teleport through this phone to you, I would do it in a heartbeat so you could see me down on my knees, begging you to please forgive me.
13. I have missed you so much throughout this distance, now I feel like I’ve put even more distance between us with this screw-up. Please tell me I can make this right.
14. I am so sorry for being such a horrible long-distance partner. I just want to try and make it up to you.
15. I hope that there’s a day coming when we will finally be together again in the same place, finally, where we will laugh about all this and be grateful we held on to each other.
16. I know long-distance relationships are never easy but trying to fix a stupid mistake like this with a long-distance apology is a whole new level of hard here. I’m so sorry.
17. I miss you always, but especially now as I just feel desperate to see your face and hear your voice and know what’s happening in your head and heart. Please forgive me.
18. If I could make this all go away, I would. I hate that I’ve put even more between us than the distance we were already dealing with.
19. You are so important to me and the thought of us being together again one day is what has gotten me through. I know I’ve messed up, but please don’t throw away what we have because I was an idiot. I can do better, I promise.
20. I know there’s no reason for you to believe me and it would probably be easier to just walk away from this long-distance relationship, but please hear me when I say that I can make it all worthwhile if you can just hang on through this with me.
21. I have messed up so much with you and I don’t blame you for being angry. I blame myself for being such an idiot, and I know the long-distance thing isn’t an excuse.
22. I am so lucky to have you, and I just hope that doesn’t change because of what I said/did. I want us to come back together even stronger than we ever were before, and I’m sorry to have hurt you.
23. I think I could spend the rest of my life typing out sorry texts to you, but they could never completely express how remorseful I am. Please just hold on until I can look you in your eyes again.
24. Being apart through the good times is hard enough, but being apart through this? I’m so sorry for everything, I wish I was there to hold you and make it better.
25. I am so sorry, I just hope that you’ll give me another chance to make this right when we are back together again. These text apologies will never come close to showing you how I feel like holding you in my arms again can.

It can be really hard to express your remorse when you’ve messed up, but if you can take these sorry messages for her and add your own words to them, taking ownership of your actions, you might be able to show her how sorry you feel. It’s not easy trying to form romantic sorry messages, because romantic apologies are always bittersweet, but if you can be honest, open, and let her know that you know you’ve messed up, you might just find forgiveness, and maybe even a second chance.

There are also good morning messages for her, clever bedtime messages for her, and sweet anytime messages for her, too, if you’d like to get some more text ideas for her.

Whether you end up saying, writing or texting these sorry messages for her, we hope you find peace and resolution in your relationship.

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Amy Hartle is the author of Do You Love Me? How To Stop Seeking Reassurance in Relationships, a book on reassurance seeking and relationship anxiety. Both her book and this blog are born of personal experience; Amy shares expert relationship advice from the lessons learned during her own 10+ years with her husband, as well as couples travel tips and romantic getaway recommendations, all gleaned while traveling the world together.

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What could be more romantic than a good old-fashioned love letter? There is something so heartwarming about being able to physically see how your partner feels about you written out. Plus, it’s such a lovely keepsake to have tucked away throughout the years to read over again any time you need a reminder of how much you are loved.

A romantic love letter for him can be a part of a grand gesture expression of love or just a sweet reminder to your honey that they are the one for you. Whether you’re looking for sweet love letters for him, sexy love letters for him, or something in between, we’ve got some ideas below to get you started. These can work for love letters to your husband or love letters for boyfriends, and even a few might work as love letters for a crush if you tweak it right!

Put pen to paper (or fingertips to keyboard) and express how you really feel with one of these love letters for him!

Love Letters for Him

Sweet Love Letters for Him

My Sweet Love,

 I have to tell you, you are always present in my thoughts, but today I just cannot seem to stop thinking of you! You are always so sweet to me and I just want to try to make you feel the way you make me feel every single day.

I try to imagine what life would be like without you, my sweet love, but that’s just such an impossible thought that I can’t. You are too amazing, too perfect for me, I simply can’t even begin to imagine my world without you in it! You have spoiled me with your sweetness and all I can do is hope to be half as sweet back to you as you are to me.

    XOXOXOXO,

                      Me

To The Man Making My Heart Go Wild,

 Here I am, writing you a love letter even though I know I’m going to see you soon. I guess this is just a picture-perfect example of how hard you are making me fall for you.

There are so many things about you that I admire and love, like your fun-loving spirit and your gorgeous smile, that I just can’t seem to get out of my head! I suppose there are worse things in life than having someone as incredible like you in my thoughts, right? I just want you to know that since we’ve been spending all this time together, you’ve made it so I look forward to every single new day because I know you will be in it. It’s cheesy, I know, but it’s so true!

        With Love,

                 Me

My Love,

I wonder if you have any idea how much I love you? Well, just in case you don’t quite have the full picture, let me fill you in on a few things. #1 Since we got together, you are basically on my mind every single day, all day. #2 Since the first time you told me you loved me, I’ve been walking around feeling like a helium balloon that’s flying higher and higher into the clouds. #3 When I try to imagine what life would be like without you, I literally cannot because you have become my entire life.

I don’t know if this paints a clear enough picture for you, but I want you to know that every single day, you have my heart. Every single day, I am here for you. Every single day, I am yours.

     With Love Always,

                        Me

Post Fight Love Letters for Him

My Love,

Okay, I know this fight was bad. There are things I said that I wish I could take back, and I’m sure you wish the same. I can’t change the past, but I can tell you right now, from this present moment, that I will make every possible effort to slow down and consider my words more carefully in any future fight we may have.

It’s never my intention to hurt you, so I know that if we ever get into this kind of fight again, I’m going to make a different choice to cool off before I respond so you and I never have to feel this way again. I hope you can trust me with your heart still, just as I will always trust you with mine. I’m not going anywhere, okay?

     All My Love,

                    Me

My Sweet Man,

Disagreements are a part of life, but I know that you and I can handle them. I hope you know that a silly fight like this one will never ever change how I feel about you. You are my guiding star, I need you in my life and that isn’t changing anytime soon.

I hope that we are always able to navigate these kinds of disagreements in a respectful, loving way with each other, and I think that our ability to do that means we can probably make it through just about anything.

Always Yours,

            Me

My Love,

I keep going over how we got here. I  know that we both had a lot of things that needed to be said for a long time, and saying them was healthy because we can’t address any of our issues if we aren’t willing to talk about them with each other. No person is perfect and no relationship is perfect, but that doesn’t mean we can’t make sure ours is perfectly imperfect!

I want us to be able to talk openly about all this, so if that’s in letters like this one or on the phone or in person, let’s lay our cards out on the table and see what we’ve got. I’m going to start: you mean the world to me and I don’t want to lose this. I’m here to do what I can to resolve all our issues. Let’s be on the same team, okay?

Love Always,

                Me

Sexy Love Letters for Him

Hey Sexy,

I know you know that you are in my thoughts literally every day, but now, you’re in my dreams too! Ummm can I just say that last night’s dream was a little X rated, but you know what? I am 100% not complaining! Basically, you’ve got me all turned around, flipped upside down, and I’m hoping for more of that later tonight… either in my dreams or in person.

Here’s to seeing you tonight, either way.

    XOXOXO,

               Me

My Love,

I cannot get over last night. Everything about last night. The way you looked, the way you sounded, the way you tasted. I can’t get these things out of my head, but I really don’t want to so that’s alright.

Can I just say that I am eagerly awaiting a repeat. I guess you just bring out the naughty in me and I love it!

Your Naughty Love,

                          Me

Hey There,

I just keep having all these thoughts about you, and I have to tell you, not many of them are PG! You are just such a sexy, sexy man that I can’t resist thinking of you and all the things I want to do with you…

So here is my plan: you, me, and a little privacy, TONIGHT. I cannot wait to see you and will be counting down the minutes.

Yours,

    Me

Birthday Love Letters for Him

Hey Birthday Boy,

At the risk of sounding stupid cheesy, I am so grateful for you every day, but especially today because today we get to celebrate that you were born ___ years ago! I am so happy to have you in my life and I want you to feel today how special you are to me.

What can I do to make your birthday special? Tell me what I can do to treat you today, Birthday Boy!

   All my Love,

            Me

Happy Birthday!

On this day, your day, I want you to know that I think you are one of the coolest guys I’ve ever known. Really and truly, you continue to surprise me each and every day with new ways that you show up for me. I just want to spend today showing up for you in every way that I can!

So buckle up, because today we are celebrating YOU. I can’t wait to be with you and celebrate one of my most favorite days of the year: the day that you, my love, were born.

 XOXOXO,

        Me

Funny Love Letters for Him

To Whom This May Concern,

I am writing today to inform you that I have officially crossed the threshold of no return with you. You have shown me time and time again how absolutely sweet, generous, kind, and thoughtful you are, and I have to say, you have given me no choice but to fall head over heels, hopelessly in love with you.

Due to these previously unforeseen circumstances, I am now compelled to state in writing my current objectives and expectations: I intend to be yours now, tomorrow, and in perpetuity as long as you will have me, and I expect that you will go on being your absolutely marvelous self, and as long as these conditions are met, our contract can continue in good faith to the full satisfaction of both parties involved.

Also, I love you.

    Awaiting Your Reply,

                   Me

To My Sweet Love,

I don’t know how you’re feeling today, but you should be exhausted from running through my dreams ALL night last night! I know it’s cheesy, but it’s true. I just keep thinking of you and all the fun things we do when we’re together… and all the fun things we do when we’re together….

Yeah, it’s going to be a loooooooong day for me today waiting for you, but you’re worth it. So far, anyway. I’m teasing, of course you’re worth it always!

Yours in Waiting,

         Me

Long Distance Love Letters for Him

Hey Love,

How are you? I hope all is well where you are, but I have to tell you that this long distance thing is made even harder by the fact that you are so amazing and I just want you here closer to me! Where you are is very, very lucky to have you, and I hope everyone around you knows that.

I miss you so much each and every day and I can’t wait until we are together again. I love you so much and think of you every day. Take care of yourself for me, okay?

Sending My Love,

                 Me

For My Love,

I keep a countdown of when I get to see you in person again and I have to tell you, there are days when I’m sure time is literally slowing down. How else can we possibly explain how long this time apart feels? When we are together, time just flies by. When we are apart, it ~ s l o w s ~ to an absolute crawl.

None of that really matters though, because no matter what, I’m here waiting for you. You are worth the wait, always, so I guess I’ll just try to buck up and stand strong until I’m back in your arms again. I love you!

Your Long Distance Love,

                 Me

There are so many sweet ways to express our love for each other, but writing it all out in an old-fashioned love letter is probably one of the best ways to show him you care. It doesn’t have to be on paper either, you can send a digital love letter, too, but when it comes to keepsakes of love, a folder of loved letters saved to the desktop maybe doesn’t hit the same way a physical love letter tucked away in a special spot in your room does.

Either way, be true to your heart and true to your relationship and speak your own truth, using these love letter templates as your guide. Go deep or stay sweet, either way you’re sure to have the perfect love letter for him.

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Was he the star of your dreams last night? Let him know by texting good morning messages for him that will get his day started off right!

Whether you’re looking for good morning text ideas for your boyfriend or your husband, your man will love knowing he is on your mind, and sending fun and flirty good morning messages for him is a great way to ensure you’ll be on his mind aaaaaall day; plus, who doesn’t love a flirty good morning text?

Show your man some love and affection with these flirty good morning messages for him!

Fun Good Morning Messages for Your Boyfriend

1. Good morning to the sweetest man I know!

2. Hope you had a great night’s sleep, you’re going to need it for what I have planned for us later!

3. You were def on my mind last night because I dreamt of you all night long. Still not as good as the real deal; good morning, I’ll see you later!

4. Good morning, hope your coffee is as hot as you are… Actually, maybe just a little less, don’t want you to burn yourself

5. Good morning to the man of my dreams… literally, you were the star of my dreams last night, I’ll tell you all about it later!

6. Good morning! It’s definitely a good one for me because I’m pretty excited for our date tonight!

7. Good morning, here’s hoping you and your cute butt have a fantastic day!

8. Good morning, cutie. Woke up with a smile just thinking of you.

9. Good morning! Hope you have a day as awesome as you are!

10. I love waking up knowing you’re my boyfriend. It’s a very good morning for me here, how about you?

11. Good morning, I hope you woke up feeling as happy about yesterday as I did!

12. Good morning, babe. I’m hoping my morning coffee will taste as strong and sweet as you are!

13. Good mornings are always good for me when I know I’ll see you later.

14. Good morning to the coolest guy ever… hope you’re off to a great start today!

15. I’m thinking of you already, it’s going to be a long day until I finally get to see you tonight!

16. I wake up and you are the first thought on my mind. I’m okay with this! Good morning <3

17. Good morning to the person who makes me smile every single day!

18. I hope you’re having a good morning over there XOXOXO

19. It’s always a good morning for me when I have seeing you later to look forward to.

20. Good morning, I’ll be thinking of you today!

21. Good morning to the cutest guy ever, can’t wait to hang later <3

22. You were in my dreams last night and it was great… I didn’t even have to miss you in my sleep!

23. I hope your morning coffee tastes as strong and sweet as you are…

24. Good morning handsome, you were the first thing on my mind this morning and I don’t mind that at all!

25. Good morning to the sweetest guy I’ve ever known… hope you had sweet dreams last night!

26. Good morning Mister, hope you’re feeling refreshed and ready for our date tonight!

27. Good morning to my sweet and sexy and always wonderful boyfriend!

28. Good mornings are all I’ve had since we started dating and I just want to tell you how happy I am with you. I’m hoping I am returning the favor!

Hot and Heavy Good Morning Texts

29. Good morning, babe! Hope your coffee tastes as magical as you did last night…

30. Good morning… wait until I tell you what you were doing to me in my dreams last night!

31. It is absolutely a GREAT morning for me! You’ll never believe what we did in my dreams last night!

32. Good morning, babe… ooooooh I cannot wait until I get my hands on you tonight!!!

33. I literally woke up this morning craving you. No joke. I’m going to devour you tonight…

34. Good morning and I hope your dreams were as… umm… exciting as mine were LOL!

35. I’m going to have to work up the courage to tell you the kind of wild stuff we were doing in my dreams last night! Good morning, indeed.

36. Good mornings are a given for me after I have the kinds of spicy dreams I had about you last night! Super hot, babe!

37. Good morning to the hottest guy I know… can’t wait to be with you later.

38. Good morning! Would be an even better morning if you were here so I could show you a little of what we were doing in my dreams last night…

39. I think I blushed just seeing your name in my phone… I’ll fill you in on the naughty shenanigans we were up to in my dreams last night when I see you later. Whew! HOT.

40. Good morning! For your eyes only… (wait a minute before sending a sleepy, still in bed pic for him, wishing him a good day. He’ll love the sexy tease to start his day!)

41. Okay, I know I slept well because I dreamed some very X rated dreams about you, but I woke up with my heart racing with excitement! Cannot wait to see you tonight!

42. Good morning, I’d like to live out my dreams with you… my very naughty dreams from last night!

43. Good morning to the man so hot, my sleeping brain has me dreaming all kinds of hot and heavy dreams of you!

44. I woke up this morning immediately thinking of last night… it’s a very good morning for me here with my memories, hope you’re having a good one, too!

45. Good morning to the man who kept me up waaaaay too late last night… and I can’t wait to do it all again tonight

46. Good morning… you should be feeling really proud of your performance last night… I’m still reeling over here <3

47. Good morning to the man who makes me tremble with anticipation of his touch… come over soon and do that some more, k?

48. Good morning, hottie. Hoping for a repeat of last night soon!

49. Good morning to the man who makes me really excited to be bad with him…

50. Good morning? After last night, this is a GREAT morning and I’m down for a repeat!

51. Good morning to the man who had me all hot and bothered last night… and will hopefully do it again tonight

Sweet Good Morning Texts for Your Husband

52. Good morning to the man who has been my #1 since

53. Good morning to the hottest husband around!

54. Good morning, husband of mine. Hope you had a good night’s sleep!

55. Hope you’re having a great day, hon, good morning!

56. Even after all these years, you’re still the man of my dreams! Good morning, babe.

57. Good morning to the man who puts all the other husbands to shame!

58. I am so lucky to wake up to a husband like you and don’t I know it!

59. Good morning, I hope you have a day just like you… absolutely freakin wonderful!

60. Good morning to the best husband a person could ask for!

61. It’s always a good morning for me when I wake up and I’m still yours and you’re still mine <3

62. Good morning to the man who’s still got it going on, even after all these years!

63. Good morning, my love. I had a naughty dream about you last night! Can’t wait to tell you tonight

64. Good morning, hon, I’m thinking of you today!

65. I woke up thinking I’m lucky that I’ve got a man who ages like fine wine… Yummy!]

66. Good morning to the man who continues to drive me wild in all the best ways!

67. Good morning to my favorite guy, I hope your morning is going well so far.

68. Good morning! I love you, my big, strong, sexy guy <3

69. I’m a lucky woman to get sleep next to you each night. Hope you’re having a good morning, babe.

70. Good morning, my love! You wore me out in all the best ways last night… thank you

71. Good morning to the sweetest husband ever! I’ve got plans for us later, k?

72. Good morning, sweet husband of mine! Let me take you out later? I wanna show off my hunky husband a bit.

73. Good morning to the man who has made sure every morning is a good one since the day we got married!

74. Making me wake up with a smile on my face since , thank you, husband of mine!

75. Good morning to the coolest husband ever! Trust me, I am an expert as I actually have the coolest husband ever, so….

76. Good morning to the man I somehow love more and more each and every day.

77. It’s always a good morning when I wake up next to you… hope you’re having a great day!

78. Good morning, my love! Hope your coffee is as lovely as you make me feel every single day <3

 Sending sweet texts to your man is always fun, and while sending cute goodnight texts means he will drift off to sleep thinking of you, sending fun and flirty good morning messages to him means you’ll be on his mind all day long!

Texting throughout the day is a great way to stay connected even when you’re not together. Remind your man he’s always on your mind by sending a cute good morning text his way as you head your separate ways!

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Communication is always an important element in relationships: when saying good night to your man, send off sweet good night messages for him that will ensure thoughts of you are all that’s on his mind as he drifts off to sleep! Whether you’re looking for goodnight messages for your boyfriend or goodnight texts for your husband, we’ve got plenty to choose from!

Maybe you’re feeling like sending cute goodnight texts that make him smile that goofy smile you’ve come to love so much, or maybe you’re looking for spicy goodnight texts that will have you both feeling the heat; either way, you can find inspiration here in this list of cute good night messages for him!

Cute Good Night Messages for Your Boyfriend

1. If my dreams are half as sweet as you are to me, it’s going to be a good night…

2. Is it possible to be so incredibly happy with someone that thinking of them makes it hard to sleep? Is that a thing? Because I think that’s happening to me rn…

3. Today was amazing… you are amazing! Good night!

4. Btw, you were absolutely adorable today when you and I’m just grinning to myself over here remembering it. Good night, babe!

5. You make me feel safe when we’re together. I miss you already… sweet dreams.

6. Your arms. I miss them right now! Good night <3

7. I know that I’ll see you again tomorrow, but the problem is that that is so freakin exciting to me that now I can’t sleep and UGH I miss you! Good night!

8. Whyyyyyy does tomorrow feel so far away? Oh, that’s right, it’s because I have to make it through the night without you to get there. Booooo, good night <3

9. Wish you were here so I could feel those strong arms wrapped around me all night long.

10. I’m just laying here so thankful I have such a sweet boyfriend to text good night to.

11. We spent all day together and still I’m like, nope, I could totally go for more. Miss you, babe, good night!

12. You are basically my dream boyfriend… here’s hoping I see you in my dreams, too!

13. To the man who stole my heart: good night <3

14. Sweet dreams to my dream man!

15. It’s funny because I know I have to sleep to get to tomorrow to see you again but the excitement of getting to see you again is making it hard to fall asleep and what even is this sorcery you’ve used on me? Nevermind, I like it, keep it up <3

16. The more I learn about you, the more I like you. I’m okay with this! Good night, babe!

17. If a genie appeared and granted me three wishes, the first one would be more wishes because duh, but then the second one would be to be in your arms again. Good night, hon.

18. Going to sleep now so I can dream of you…

19. I’ll dream of you if you dream of me, k? <3

20. Pretty sure I’m going to dream of you tonight, literally cannot stop thinking of you today!

21. So much harder to fall asleep alone now that I know how strong your snuggle game is…

22. The dream version of you is still pretty awesome, but the real you is way better. I guess I’ll take what I can get… good night!

23. You know how some people count sheep to fall asleep? I count reasons why you’re awesome.

24. Sweet dreams to the guy who stole my heart!

25. I have dreamt about you every single night this week, what the heck did I even dream about before you? Who cares, I’m heading towards more dreams of you… Good night <3

26. It was amazing to spend the day with you today! I’ll take more of that, please. Good night!

Hot and Flirty Good Night Texts for Him

27. Today was a very, very good day… you know the part of the day I’m talking about!

28. I wish you were here so we could continue what we started earlier… Miss you, good night!

29. I just keep thinking of the way your arms feel around me, the way your lips taste, just…. Ugh, now I’m DEFINITELY going to have a hard time falling to sleep!

30. I can’t quit thinking about you, babe! I think my dreams might be X-rated tonight.

31. Having some very naughty thoughts about you right now, can’t wait to share them with you tomorrow… he he!

32. I am missing you so much right now… like ALL of you, if you know what I mean.

33. Remembering what we did earlier is making it hard to settle down for bed all alone here… good night over there!

34. I need a fan or something to cool off with over here, just thinking about how hot you are is keeping me awake!

35. I can still smell you on my sheets. Making it very, very hard to get to sleep.

36. I wish you were here to cuddle me right now, but something tells me we wouldn’t be doing a whole lot of sleeping…

37. Thinking of you and that thing you do with your tongue that drives me crazy… definitely going to take a while for me to get to sleep here!

38. I know you told me to have sweet dreams, but I think I’d rather them be a little spicy tonight…

39. I know in my head it’s time to go to sleep, but my body says it would rather be with you again…

40. So if I were to tell you what I’m wearing right now… or not wearing right now… would you respond in kind?

41. My body aches it misses you so much…

42. If I were to tell you I’m feeling naughty and nice, what would you say about that?

43. I know we need to get some sleep tonight, but I just can’t quit fantasizing about pulling an all-nighter with you…

44. It’s not fair that you’re so incredibly hot that I just want you all the time and can hardly even sleep because of it.

45. I wish you were here… memories of you are driving me crazy and I’d like to return the favor.

Sweet Good Night Messages for Your Husband

46. I know you/I have to be away for work, but you’ve got me so spoiled that I hate to sleep without your arms wrapped around me.

47. Anything that keeps me away from you and those big strong arms at bedtime sucks, just saying.

48. Marriage should mean never being deprived of your amazing bedtime snuggles, texting good night isn’t the same!

49. I’m on my way home, babe, can’t wait to climb in our big comfy bed with you!

50. To my big, strong, hunky husband: I miss you and can’t wait to be together again. Good night!

51. Hope you’re having a good night, hon. Our bed never feels quite right without you in it.

52. I know sometimes work keeps you up late, but as your spouse, I’d rather be the one keeping you up late, if you catch my drift!

53. Sleeping Without My Husband: 0/0 do not recommend. Good night, babe!

54. Not everyone has a super hot husband to miss at night, so I know I should feel lucky, but instead, I just feel incredibly deprived of your strong, snuggly arms wrapped around me!

55. To my husband who still thrills me… good night, my love.

56. Good night, although for me it’s never as good as a night as when I get to fall asleep in your arms.

57. You are still my favorite person and I know how lucky I am to have you… good night, babe.

58. Sweet dreams? Psssh, easier said than done if you’re not next to me.

59. My favorite part of the day is when I crawl into bed next to you… coming home soon, babe!

60. To my husband who has spoiled me so much that I struggle to sleep without your arms wrapped around me… Good night, love you!

61. Roses are red, violets are blue, no one has ever had a husband as sweet as you… good night!

62. Hoping you’re having a good night, love. Sweet dreams.

63. Good night to my favorite snuggle buddy ever, love you and miss you.

64. I am proud of you for working so hard but I do miss those big strong arms around me as I drift off to sleep… good night, hon.

65. I’m keeping the bed warm for you, babe. Hurry home, good night!

There are so many ways to show love and affection, but a cute good night message is a sweet way to remind him that he is in your thoughts! Whether you’re sending flirty good night texts to your boyfriend or your husband, a quick good night message for him will increase the chances that even if you can’t physically be in his arms, you can be in his dreams tonight!

Sweet dreams and happy flirting!

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Amy Hartle is the author of Do You Love Me? How To Stop Seeking Reassurance in Relationships, a book on reassurance seeking and relationship anxiety. Both her book and this blog are born of personal experience; Amy shares expert relationship advice from the lessons learned during her own 10+ years with her husband, as well as couples travel tips and romantic getaway recommendations, all gleaned while traveling the world together.

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